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You are deciding how long you can afford to be wrong about what comes next.</description><pubDate>Tue, 25 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Foundation</category><category>Decision-Making</category></item><item><title>The Cost of One More Month</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/12b-philosophy-the-cost-of-one-more-month/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/12b-philosophy-the-cost-of-one-more-month/</guid><description>Every additional month of safety costs a month of the life you are trying to protect.</description><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Philosophy</category><category>Time &amp; Energy Economics</category></item><item><title>The Runway Number</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/12a-foundation-the-runway-number/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/12a-foundation-the-runway-number/</guid><description>How to calculate runway, size it for signal, and decide before the money decides for you.</description><pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Foundation</category><category>Decision-Making</category></item><item><title>Never Has No Time Like the Present</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/11b-philosophy-never-has-no-time-like-the-present/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/11b-philosophy-never-has-no-time-like-the-present/</guid><description>The cost of starting has collapsed. Your time has not.</description><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Philosophy</category><category>Values &amp; Identity</category></item><item><title>Build Something That Doesn&apos;t Need You</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/11a-foundation-build-something-that-doesnt-need-you/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/11a-foundation-build-something-that-doesnt-need-you/</guid><description>The thirty-day test for whether you built an asset or bought yourself another job.</description><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Foundation</category><category>Time &amp; Energy Economics</category></item><item><title>Where Did Everybody Go?</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/10b-philosophy-where-did-everybody-go/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/10b-philosophy-where-did-everybody-go/</guid><description>The friend drought is not your fault. It is still your problem.</description><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Philosophy</category><category>Values &amp; Identity</category></item><item><title>Moving to Portugal Was the Conservative Choice</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/10a-foundation-moving-to-portugal-was-the-conservative-choice/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/10a-foundation-moving-to-portugal-was-the-conservative-choice/</guid><description>The same salary, a lower cost of living, and more of the years we did not want to postpone.</description><pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Foundation</category><category>Unconventional Paths</category></item><item><title>No Catch-Up Contributions</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/09b-philosophy-no-catch-up-contributions/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/09b-philosophy-no-catch-up-contributions/</guid><description>Tuesday&apos;s envelope priced the second salary. It did not price the thing we were buying by giving it up.</description><pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Philosophy</category><category>Values &amp; Identity</category></item><item><title>What the Second Salary Actually Paid</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/09a-foundation-what-the-second-salary-actually-paid/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/09a-foundation-what-the-second-salary-actually-paid/</guid><description>Your real hourly wage on the leftovers is less than you think.</description><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Foundation</category><category>Time &amp; Energy Economics</category></item><item><title>The Identity You Didn&apos;t Choose</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/08b-philosophy-the-identity-you-didnt-choose/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/08b-philosophy-the-identity-you-didnt-choose/</guid><description>A career does not just teach you skills. It can issue you a self.</description><pubDate>Sat, 11 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Philosophy</category><category>Values &amp; Identity</category></item><item><title>I Underwrote Apartment Buildings for a Living. I Never Underwrote My Own Life.</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/08a-foundation-i-underwrote-apartment-buildings/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/08a-foundation-i-underwrote-apartment-buildings/</guid><description>Four questions a professional investor asks before a dollar moves, and the ones almost nobody asks about their own life.</description><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Foundation</category><category>Decision-Making</category></item><item><title>Messy Numbers Are Anxious Numbers</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/08a-foundation-messy-numbers-are-anxious-numbers/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/08a-foundation-messy-numbers-are-anxious-numbers/</guid><description>The books are not for the IRS. 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It does not tell you what the time is for.</description><pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Philosophy</category><category>Decision-Making</category></item><item><title>When to Pick Stocks (And When to Leave It Alone)</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/07a-foundation-when-to-pick-stocks/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/07a-foundation-when-to-pick-stocks/</guid><description>Indexing is right for most money. The edge belongs only to the slice you are willing to do real work for.</description><pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Foundation</category><category>Money Fundamentals</category></item><item><title>Community Is the Asset Nobody Puts on the Balance Sheet</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/06b-philosophy-more-friends-in-two-years-than-fifteen/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/06b-philosophy-more-friends-in-two-years-than-fifteen/</guid><description>The job was handing you people. 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Five categories that mean something, and when to stop budgeting.</description><pubDate>Tue, 02 Jun 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Foundation</category><category>Money Fundamentals</category></item><item><title>What Is an Hour Worth?</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/01b-philosophy-which-is-worth-more/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/01b-philosophy-which-is-worth-more/</guid><description>Everyone says time is more valuable, then organizes their whole life around money.</description><pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2026 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><category>Philosophy</category><category>Decision-Making</category></item><item><title>The Two Currencies You Spend Every Day</title><link>https://breakingfree.io/posts/01a-foundation-the-two-currencies/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://breakingfree.io/posts/01a-foundation-the-two-currencies/</guid><description>You track your money obsessively and your time not at all — even though one is the currency you can never earn back. 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